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Women of Impact

Dec 16, 2020

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Do you or your partner struggle with insecurities, doubts, and uncertainties in life? Are you easily overwhelmed and feel like youll never be able to overcome such feelings? On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by entrepreneur, speaker, host, and husband Tom Bilyeu to discuss such matters and more as they explore why you are trapped in a cycle of insecurity and ways you can break out of it. They discuss how a growth mindset leads to turning insecurities into strengths, why you have to own up to your insecurities, how understanding sexuality helps feeling less worried about it, how to let go of the things you cant control, why you may need to re-prioritize what you value, why your insecurities arent sexy, and how to be clear with your partner so you know how to support each other.


Check out Tom and Lisas Relationship Theory:




Intro | Lisa opens todays episode about dealing with your insecurities and uncertainties. [01:33]

Handle It | Tom shares why having a growth mindset is key early into a relationship. [2:49]

Own Up | Tom reveals how to identify your insecurities and share them with your partner. [6:20]

Identity | Tom reveals how to shift your mindset to deal with your insecurities. [9:3 0]

Sexuality | Tom shares the reasons behind why we find each other physically attractive. [12:15]

Value | Tom shares his insecurities and how he utilizes them as a strength and force. [  20:12]

Harmless | Tom reveals how men and women have to embrace their aging. [23:26]

Its Not Sexy | Tom shares why wallowing in your insecurities isnt sexy. [25:53]

Articulate | Tom reveals why you have to be tactful and clear with your partner. [29:39]

Connect | Tom shares how you can continue to follow him and learn more. [34:09]



Theres two things you should never worry about: the things you cant change and the things you can. Because if you cant change it, whats the point in worrying about it? And if you can change it, just go do something about it. [9:38]


Men enjoy looking at something that turns them on and women enjoy being the turn on.’” [16:50]


You shouldnt put yourself in a weak, vulnerable position where you need somebody to echo value back to you. You should not need me to feed you that you are attractive and all that. And at the same time, what kind of person would I be if I dont do everything I can to make you feel good about yourself across every dimension that a human can feel good about themselves? [32:14]